Saturday, June 11, 2011

"Get Over It"

‎'You'll get over it...' It's the clichés that cause the trouble. To lose someone you love is to alter your life for ever. You don't get over it because 'it' is the person you loved. The pain stops, there are new people, but the gap never closes. How could it?

The particularness of someone who mattered enough to grieve over is not erased by anyone but death. This hole in my heart is in the shape of you and no one else can fit. Why would I want them to?

Just because I love you doesn't mean you need to love me back. If you love someone then aren't you already there with him/her? Then why this need for the other person to show his/her love too. Of course, everyone needs appreciation. Even a dog does. But does that mean that you can't love someone if your love is left unappreciated?
Well most people get tired, lose hope and move on.
Nothing wrong with that too.
You never know. Love might await you in some form or the other. 
But, what if that was it.. The one whom you left behind.. or rather the one who left you..was The One..
Then we have nothing else to do but Regret.
either regret the love that you got earlier or the love you lost later on. But Regret nonetheless!

I wonder.. where does this road lead to? The answer is Inner-Peace.
Those of you who have seen Kung-Fu Panda know exactly what I'm talking about! :)
The key to success, I feel is to love with no expectations. No boundaries. Just love without any inhibitions. You do not need to look, hear, feel or know that person anymore than you already do.
Just loving enough, gives you that peace.
But like all priceless things,this too isn't an easy task.
He is going.. every moment that passes lost.. and you are so concerned about this helplessness..How amidst all this do you find that PEACE?

Stop Expecting anything in return. Just Stop! Give it time. Love is a seed..which if nurtured shall Grow. It  doesn't require anything else but your selfless love ad care. Feel beautiful.Be at your best. And it'll all come back to you.

Ahh.. The satisfaction after writing this..Is clearly overwhelming! Hope reading this too is!
This is me..signing off for tonight!
Keep Lovin' Keep living..!
Much Love!