The frail hands of the lady in her 80s rested
on Vinay's shoulder, like a canopy saving a lost survivor from getting washed
by the high tides. Her hand felt warm and friendly, so Vinay did not resist. In
fact, after all the chaos in the family, he was desperate for some warmth. The
lady seemed more welcoming than his mother at lest, who had simply gone against
his wishes to comply with his father. To her, her duty as a wife came foremost
than her being a mother to Vinay. He felt tired, heart-broken and lost, which
of course he could not show to Meera, who was puzzled by this instant
connection between Vinay and the elderly woman.
They were sitting under the shade of a Banyan
tree next to the main temple, under which other travelers and beggars were
resting. The lady spoke further, “Meera why don’t you come closer to me and sit here
along with Vinay. Don’t worry, I am just an old frail woman, what harm can I
do? You look like you wouldn’t mind some calming words coming out from a
stranger, would you?” and she ended with a smile. Meera smiled back and moved
closer to them. The lady began.
You can call me Amma. My name isn’t of much importance.
But what I do believe is that there is a purpose for everything that happens in
life. Me, being abandoned by my kids.. You two kids falling in love but getting
refused by your family.. You running away from home. And you coming to this
very temple and you sitting right here in front of me.. Every single act has a
purpose, beta. Let me tell you a story after which you can proceed to go and
marry. I hope you won’t mind sparing this little time for your Amma?
The same radiant smile flashed on Amma’s face
and Vinay and Meera looked convinced. Meera twitched thinking of delaying their
marriage any further, because her parents would soon find out that she has
eloped and would come searching for them. However, she was too much grasped by
Amma’s conversation to back out now.
I will tell you about Shiva and Parvati’s marriage
today, which is important for all couples, wedded or otherwise to know of.
Shiva is a god, that we all know but Parvati was born into the Himalayan king’s
family. She worshipped and propitiated till she was visited by Lord Shiva who
granted her a wish. She was in devotional love with him and thus, all she asked
for was Him. He accepted, jus then Parvati cringed her brows. He asked her what
the matter was, to which she replied that she wanted to marry Shiva with her
parents’ acceptance. But Shiva was known for his isolated existence in the
forests and icy mountains of the Himalayas. No parent in their right sense
would offer their well-raised beautiful and intelligent daughter’s hand to a
forest dweller. So she asked him to come to her parents and ask her hand for
marriage from them. And further convince them with his intelligence, wisdom and
grace to accept him as their son-in-law. Also that only after her parents had
agreed to marriage, that she would marry him and the marriage would be done
with all rituals in order. Shiva agreed to the terms and soon went to her
parents and asked Parvati’s hand for marriage. And then they were soon married
and their marriage is still considered to be the most perfect form of marriage
that sadhus even today give example of.
Amma took her spectacles off from her face and
wiped her moist eyes. Vinay and Meera held hands as they watched intently at
her. She finally looked at them and a sad smile appeared on her face.
You are grown ups, but still young. You soon shall
marry and lead a wedded life together, have kids. You shall spend not just your
investments but all your hopes, privileges and love on them. One fine day, they
make you realize they are grown up now, and thus you may not be a part of their
decision making, and yet hope that you still will be.
My son is a hard-working man who really loves his
family. But he has grown up so much that he feels I am breaking his family
apart. He has a nice wife, whom he chose for himself who was a beautiful girl
he had met in college. What he did not realize is that love isn’t just about
love for one person. It is about how you learn to love higher, how it becomes
more pristine. Love after a point is not about a person or persons but rather
about you.
You kids have eloped, but did you ever think why
your parents did not agree to your marriage in the first place? It was because
they are afraid, that you are hurrying into this. That you might end up making
the wrong choice, as beauty of the skin is relative but one needs to have a
sense of maturity to see the inner beauty.
I do not wish to say that you are wrong. I see how
much you love each other and Meera I know for certain that you and Vinay will
make a wonderful couple. But beta, you must not abandon your parents. Love
between the partners and acceptance in the family are two very essential
components of a successful marriage. One is incomplete without the other, like
two wheels of a cart. You are all they have, beta.
With that said, she removed her hand from
Vinay’s head and got up to wear her slippers. Vinay and Meera got up and bent
down to take her blessings. She hugged them and gave them her blessings. Amma
called out to the pandit,
Pandit ji, they want to get married today. Please
can you help them with the needful?
Vinay held Amma’s hand in one and Meera’s hand
in the other and smiled.
Wait Panditjee, we need to go get our parents
and then only can we marry. Amma, you will join us for the ceremony right?
Amma’s smile broadened as she saw the two,
going hand in hand, towards their homes, and she looked at the setting sun and
hoped her son would come back too.
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